My fiance on the tagged website?

My fiance asked me to join tagged, it's like myspace and hi-5. When I joined I didn't see his profile. After looking around on the website I found his profile under his middle name looking for a serious relationship and he is single. I told him I wouldn't marry him becuase of this. What do you guys think?

My fiance on the tagged website?
I think you are being silly how long as he had that account. Ask him to update his profile. Unless you really just don't trust him at all
Reply:Maybe he hadn't updated his profile in a long time or something. It seems really weird that he would ask you to join if he were doing something wrong. I would see what he has to say about it but if your gut says something isn't right then you should probably listen to it.
Reply:Yeah...that's pretty bad. Not only is he putting himself out there as being single, but he's trying to hide the ID from you by putting it under his middle name.


Not good.
Reply:I would ask him first about it. It also depends on how often he is on the website, last update etc. I wouldnt let this determine whether or not i would marry him unless there was a reason why you were searching for his profile??? Had some doubts been there prior to this???
Reply:Wow...Well a couple of things come to mind...how long has it been since he actually updated his profile? It was probably a while ago and before you two got engaged or maybe even together when he set it up and just never changed it...I don't think that he would have invited you if he had something to hide...so I don't think you should not marry him bc of this....hope this helps!
Reply:HE SUCKS
Reply:That you're a lot smarter than he is.
Reply:My fiance did the same thing with a different website. Don't marry him. You can do way better and if he really cared about being engaged to you he would have changed his status. Trust me, he may say it didn't mean anything and he won't do it again, but he will.
Reply:Did you ask him why it said that? Maybe it had been a while since he updated everything....if that isn't the case then you are better off without him. Good luck!!
Reply:That you are WAY better off w/o him.
Reply:Hes a shady boy isnt he, and pretty dumb.





You should be sneaky, get yourself a secret profile using a fake name, some pics of a hottish girl not too hot or it will look supicious and add him as a friend and get chatting to him and see what he talks to you about, if he trys to chat you up you know hes a potential cheat and you should walk away, if its just harmless banter then you probably have nothing to worry about.
Reply:If you mean that you just told him that and did not even give him an opportunity to explain, then I think you jumped the gun and may have made an awful mistake.





I cannot say whether you should marry this fellow, presuming of course that he does forgive you for your apparent overreaction. However, I will say this: The lack of trust on your part is very troubling, without mutual trust in a relationship the well has been poisoned.





Your fiance I think may be a bit of a moron, as he exercised bad judgment in asking you to join this site. There is a possibility that the guy's profile is from way back; and he never bothered to remove or update the same. Yet, it may be that subconsciously he is not ready for marriage and wanted you to discover on your own his openness for playing the field (rather than him verbalizing that to you).





Just some food for thought of course, I hope you find happiness, ultimately, however things turn out as to the fellow.
Reply:Good for you - stop things before more trouble brews.